What working parents of kids with special needs want you to know
Working parents already experience stressors. Parents of kids with special needs face complex challenges from isolation, anxiety, and health concerns.
The expansion, almost standardization, of the work-from-home reality has removed walls. Mind you; these are not necessarily walls that we chose to have come down. Childcare issues among COVID-19 are corporate issues, full stop.
As schools shuttered, daycares closed, and campuses sent students home, many of us had personal circumstances we never wanted to share play out in real-time on Zoom. Over the decades of our careers, we’ve learned who wants to hear about our lives, and who wants us to listen and perform without stories from the homefront.
The absence of childcare and schools isn’t a parent problem. It’s two locomotives racing toward one another on a single track, and we’re in a moment where companies must begin to think about their workforces and craft a plan to avert disaster.
There are legal and ethical obstacles to ignoring the situation; practically speaking, if companies choose to stop hiring parents, the candidate pool would shrink considerably. And what of the individuals currently in positions?
Parents represented more than 32% of the U.S. civilian workforce in 2016. A survey of 30 companies in Europe, the U.S., Japan, Australia, and New Zealand showed that due to COVID-19, more than 60% of executives work from home with family responsibilities. Before the pandemic, childcare challenges were the cause of $12.7 billion in annual losses for U.S. businesses.
There is a reckoning to come if we don’t begin to act now.
It’s impossible to know what to expect:
There’s a likelihood that many childcare centers will not have been able to weather the financial hardship of closure and will never reopen. Childcare was already an issue, impacting men and women, with 2 million parents acknowledging that they made career sacrifices in 2016 due to problems with child care. People dismiss work-life balance until “something is wrong,” – that kind of disregard is a choice, and not a wise one.
Could the solution be that empathy and flexibility can boost the bottom line? The family-friendly policies introduced by Nordic countries since 1970, and associated increases in female employment, have raised growth in GDP per capita by nearly 20 percent.
Before the pandemic, it was conceivable to maintain deliberate oblivion to people’s circumstances. That’s not possible now.
The individuals we employ are human beings with complex responsibilities and pulls outside of work. The layers that exist in a person’s experience contribute to the richness of creativity and tenacity they use to problem-solve, innovate, and connect with co-workers, clients, and vendors.
The inadequacy and uncertainty of child care on a global level is irrefutable – it’s time to create solutions.
Solutions to childcare issues amid COVID-19:
Working parents already experience stressors. Parents of kids with special needs face complex challenges from isolation, anxiety, and health concerns.
Creating lasting change through an ongoing commitment to support your workforce reflects an appreciation of your team. Ultimately, companies have to believe that these changes are as fundamental as providing health insurance and vacation time. There need to be open conversations about the motivation for these changes. Much of the work that we have to do requires us to let go of “how it’s always been done.”
Introducing new systems is bound to bring growing pains, but on the other side will be a productivity and efficiency spectrum that will enhance the bottom line. We cannot talk about human capital without honoring individual value. As we move forward it is necessary that we do in a way that allows everyone to come with us.